I’m taking my girlfriend to NYC next summer. She’s never been there before so this will be an event for her. She has no clue that I’m actually scouting for a church (Catholic church) for our future wedding! I’m originally from Brooklyn but moved at a very early age. Any tips would be appreciated.

I live in NYC and our wedding is considered small by the standards around here (85-90 people). We are spending approximately $25,000 on the wedding (not including the honeymoon), which is pretty much standard in this area. An average reception hall will run you $100+ per person, and a good photographer over $2,000. Hope this helps, and good luck with your proposal! (I’m guessing you’re proposing then, too?)